Explaining how have your thoughts about others changed over time

My thoughts about others changes in a few ways,

a.) Finding things in common with people of different backgrounds changed the way I think about people who look and act different from me

b.) People can act one way and hide a whole other person inside of them.

c.) The development of relationships with others should be important in getting to understand who they are.

iv come to understand that people are not who they say they are they want you to fail