Explain what the star looks like to Jane

Explain what the star looks like to John

Explain why the stars look different between Jane and john

The star looks like a desirable hunk of masculinity to Jane. But to John, the star looks like a wimpy momma's boy who might compete with him for Jane's attention. Jane and John have different impressions of the star because of their gender-specific instincts that have evolved during thousands of millenia of human evolution.