List 3 examples of how this society wipe's out the individuals minds and personal preferences.

These are the simple three examples:

1) Dare not to speak of personal thoughts.

As this may cause a kind of rage against the individual based on personal biases or in the name of social taboos etc.

2) All must be happy.

A phenomenon under whose guise personal choices and preferences suffocate and the end result is a compromise from the individual

3) No choice of mate.

Racial and social barriers make it really difficult, in some cases impossible.