How hard is it to fall in love with someone that will love you for who you are instead of something your not someone that would be romantic

and very attractive and really strong

I'll tell you from experience. pretty hard. at least, for me, as the class nerd. she wasa popular girl and all. i really liked her, she din't know i existed. then i started to talk to her, and became friends with her. evntualy, we started getting closer. i teel you, this was over a few months period of time. finally, i got the couroge to aske her out. she said yes. so, basically, you need to get close, first, and tell them who you are and show you are who you are and no one else.